Questions and Answers with Dawn Desire

People ask me a lot of questions. I decided to make a post with a few of the more frequent ones and answer them here.



Why do you love pantyhose?

This is a tough question. The short answer is I don’t really know. I have worn pantyhose most of my life. I wore them to church every Sunday and was raised to believe that you always wore pantyhose with skirts and dresses. At some point in my life I began to find them sexy. I think it has to do with the fact that I love to tease and pantyhose allow you to tease very well. When you look up a skirt if a woman is wearing pantyhose and no panties you can almost see something but not quite. And even if you try to touch you can’t actually get to it. It’s really a turn on for me.

What happened to ___________? (Adrianna, Honey, Lee, Izzy, Sammi, etc.)

Izzy and Sammi have both retired. And by retired I mean they have left the modeling life behind entirely. There is no chance either of them will be back. Same goes for most of the other women who I have worked with in the past. Many moved away. Some have careers and families now. When we started the site we were very young. Most weren’t married or didn’t have kids or careers. Of course after a decade all that has changed.

You have to remember we have been doing this for 20 years. That is a very long time. People who were born when we started the site will be legally drinking soon. The girls who modeled on my site when we were actively shooting new models are in their 40’s and 50’s. Some are 60. There are many grandmothers in the group now. I know they won’t be back and I know for a fact you wouldn’t like to see the way some of them turned out LOL. Not everyone ages as well as others.

Do you have Pantyhose Addict’s content? Do you have photos and videos of Izzy?

We have some of the content from the Addict Web/IPI group of sites. We do not have all of the content. We now own the domain names and rights to the content from the sites with the exception of anything with Izzy in it or content produced by IPI featuring Sammi. We do not have any of the photos or videos that feature Izzy, Adrianne, or Sammi nor do we have access to it. We also do not have all of the content they ever posted. Much of their original content was lost over the years and we only received what was still available when we made our licensing agreement.

This is a group of questions I get all the time.

  • Do you swing?
  • Can I meet you in person? Can I pay you to meet me?
  • Can we have sex? Can I pay you for sex?
  • I have a huge cock. Do you want to see it/play with it/fuck it/suck it/ et. al.?

The answer to all of the above is no. As I mentioned above Tony and I do play around with other people. They are friends of ours. People we have known for years. We do not swing with strangers, or even with people we know but haven’t been friends with for very long. We only play around with people we know and trust completely.

As far as meeting for any reason, paid or not, I won’t do it. I am not comfortable meeting people like that. We have had two meet and greets in the past with Izzy and friends and they were fun but I don’t think I would like to do that again.

And finally, no I don’t want to have sex with you.

If you have a nice cock, that is great. I am sure there are plenty of people out there who would love to play with it. I am not one of them. If you want to send me pics and tribute shots that is fine. But I am not going to respond to them the way you think I will. I may say “thanks” or “I am glad you enjoy it.” But I don’t do dirty emails, sexting, chatting etc. I do appreciate the fact that you enjoy my work and it turns me on knowing what you do for me, but I decided long ago that once I start responding to those messages I would not be able to keep up with all of the emails and messages.

What brand and color of pantyhose do you wear most? What is your favorite brand of pantyhose?

The first question is the easiest to answer. I wear suntan L’eggs Sheer Energy All Sheer pantyhose almost every day. That is my go to pair. I love them. They are sexy and durable. When it is hot out I will sometimes switch to Hane’s Ultra Sheer control tops. They are cooler and absorb sweat pretty well. If I am dressing up I usually wear either some really shiny and silky pantyhose, or seamless pantyhose. Occasionally I will wear stockings if Tony ask me to wear them but I don’t wear them unless he asks which isn’t often.

As to a favorite brand/style, that is a tough one. I love pantyhose! That’s it. There are some styles I don’t like because they sag after a while, run too easily, or are too rough. The styles with the tiny waistband are not fun to wear because they slide down all the time. The kind that have the seam that runs through the crotch instead of seamless panel or a cotton panel are horrible. They will rub you raw in a bad way. I also don’t like pantyhose that get runs easily. They are a waste of money because I usually only get a half of a days wear out of them before I run them and have to toss them. I LOVE shiny hose and silky hose. Those are my favorites. I prefer skin tones and never wear colored tights unless it is for a costume or photo shoot.

Do you wear pantyhose all the time?

Yes, each and every day. I wear them under my jeans. I wear them with sweats. I wear them with shorts. I wear them to the gym. I even wear them when I am going to go swimming. I just put them over my bikini bottoms.

There is a funny story about going to the water park with Sammi, her husband, Tony and the kids. i was wearing a cute summer dress, hose, and a pair of my summer wedges. When we got to the water park we set up our stuff at a table under a cabana. There were other people of course sitting around enjoying the weather. Well the first thing I did of course was take off my sundress. So I am standing there in my wedges, hose and bikini. I didn’t think a thing about it. After all I am wearing a bikini. Well I go to set my dress over the back of my chair when I notice a group of ladies with their mouths hanging open. I think they initially thought I was stripping right there in front of the kids. HAHAHA! Once I started taking off the hose they realized but at first they were shocked. It was hilarious.

Do you wear panties with pantyhose?

No. Do you wear two pair of underwear? That’s what pantyhose over panties is like to me. Plus it hides all the fun stuff too much. I like knowing that there is a chance for someone to see a little more that they would with someone wearing panties.

Do people or your close friends think it’s weird that you wear pantyhose all the time?

I have never had any one say anything to me about it. In fact many of my girlfriends have modeled for the site and now love pantyhose as well. Some of my neighbor friends who don’t know about my fetish do come over and borrow outfits, heels, and hose when they need to dress up.

I did have an incident one time that upset me. Tony and I were going to a comedy show out of town and were staying at a hotel. I wore a cute denim mini skirt, an elmo t-shirt under a little denim jacket, a pair of sexy heels, and some super shiny pantyhose. I was all fixed up and ready for a night on the town. Little did we know that a Methodist Youth Convention was being held that weekend at the same hotel we were staying in. When we got to the lobby a bunch of the “church ladies” started staring and whispering to each other. That wasn’t the best way to start the evening. When we got to the venue we had to park a couple blocks away uphill from the building. It was a pretty good hike and heels aren’t the best thing to hike in. So after the show Tony walked me out to the front of the building and then went to get the car so that I wouldn’t have to walk all the way there in my heels uphill. There were a lot of people standing out front so I felt perfectly safe. I needed a cigarette (back then I still smoked) so I stepped away from the crowd a little bit as a courtesy and lit up. While I was standing there a group of guys drove by slow and started cat calling at me like I was a hooker. I was scared and very upset. The people just turned and stared. No one said anything but just looked at me. I thought I looked really cute but apparently they thought I looked like a hooker. It ruined my evening. 🙁 Tony made me feel much better though and swore that if we saw the guys on the way back to the hotel he would make sure they didn’t do it again and make them apologize.

The moral of the story is just because a woman is dressed up sexy does not mean it is ok to act like a fool.

Do you like men in pantyhose?

Only when I am having sex. I don’t generally like men to wear them all the time. I think it is because hairy legs just don’t look good under pantyhose to me. When we are both wearing pantyhose during sex I like the sensation of the nylon rubbing on nylon. That is a turn on.

Do you like women in pantyhose? Are you bi?

Yes and yes. Once of my very first sexual experiences was with a girl in high school. I am always pointing out women in pantyhose to Tony and find myself trying to look up women’s skirts whenever I get a chance to.

Are you married?

Yes, I am very happily married to Tony. We have been together since 2000 and we married in 2002 . We have three kids (all grown now). We have a semi-open marriage in that we like to play around with our very close friends as long as the other is there to watch and doesn’t mind. I like watching Tony and other women messing around. I also like Tony watching me playing with other men and women. We have tried swinging but currently don’t.

Do you actually have the pantyhose fetish or is it for Tony?

Tony and I both have the fetish.

How do I tell if I have a pantyhose fetish or a Dawn Desire fetish?

That’s a funny question but the answer may be interesting so someone else so I will attempt to answer it. The pantyhose fetish is actually a type of underwear fetish.

Having been involved in the pantyhose fetish world for so many years I have seen many variations of the fetish and this is a very small sampling of the different varieties. In order to have the pantyhose fetish you have to be attracted to the person because they are wearing or wear pantyhose and not only because they are physically attractive (though you can be attracted physically and because they wear pantyhose).

I don’t believe there is a “Dawn Desire” fetish. If you are attracted to me solely because of the pantyhose I wear then it is a pantyhose fetish. If you are attracted to me no matter I am dressed in then it is more of normal physical attraction to me because of my physical appearance, which is perfectly normal, then it is not considered a fetish at all just regular physical desire. 🙂

Isn’t it hard to run a website when you have children?

Yes, it is. Luckily when we started the site our kids were already in school so we would just do it during the day. We also took a lot of out of town trips and left the kids with the grandparents for weekends. Now that they are grown and moved out it is much easier. Our oldest daughter knows about the site but the rest don’t as far as we know. I am sure that if they did they wouldn’t care either. We raised them to be very open about that sort of thing.

Do you/Will you  ___________?
(skype, kik, text, send selfies, facetime, chat, meet, private message, direct message, etc)

No. I don’t do any of the above.

Do you like anal?

No, I don’t do anal. It isn’t that I have never done it. I used to do anal when I much younger. I had one boyfriend that only wanted anal. But that was when I was really young. We are talking before I met Tony and I met him when I was 20 years old. Asking about anal or to do anal is a quick way to get ignored.

Can I come to one of your parties?

No, our parties are private affairs for us and our very close friends. They are not open to the public. I am sure you would love to be my friend but that’s not the way it works. LOL.

What are your turn-ons?

That is a very broad question. There are a lot of things but I will touch on the highlights. I like to tease as I have said before. I like to masturbate in the car while we are travelling. I like to walk around in public wearing just my heels and pantyhose. Usually in hotel hallways or on balconies. Places where people may see me but can’t actually get to me. I like the idea of people watching me and maybe catching me being naughty. I like to do things that shock people like fist myself or take big dildos. I like to make out with men and women. Kissing is a big turn on. I am submissive for men but dominant with women. I like being tied up sometimes.  Light bondage. I like turning Tony on the most. Most of the things I do is to turn him on as well.

Why did you decided to retire and what brought you back?

Back during the “The Great Recession” things really started to slow down with the site. We went back to work in the real world and found a group of guys who would take over operation for us. Over the next few years they ruined the site and we hated to see it like that. It was a mess when we took it back but with a lot of hard work and the support of all of our phans we are back in full swing and growing. Thank you so much for your support. Now I plan to keep going as long as you guys are still enjoying my work.

Can you make your site available in my native language? Google Translate is not always correct.

I would like to, but English is the only language I speak. If I were to try and translate my content I would have to use Google Translate so it would result in the same problem. It would be nice and would be a big help for my non-English speaking fans but it isn’t possible.


  1. Thanks for the Q & A! Have always loved your site Dawn. So looking forward to seeing new updates.
    Curious if you and Tony have ever been into pegging. I feel like that is becoming more acceptable lately.
    Love the site.

    1. No we haven’t. I do agree that pegging has been popping up more often on adult sites. Whether that means it is more acceptable in general, that people who enjoy it are not ashamed to share their activities any more, or if pegging is a popular search term and sites have noticed I can not say. Google and other tools allow webmasters to track what people are searching for so maybe they have noticed an uptick in pegging searches. I noticed a few years ago that TS took off and there was an increase of models with fake penises in porn. Sorry didn’t mean to get all technical. Tony and I have been discussing what the latest trends in adult entertainment are lately. But either way neither fetish is a turn on for Tony or myself.

      1. Dont care about trends online, and definitely not into TS porn. Just love when my girlfriend massages my prostate while jerking me off. It is the most incredible orgasm. And now love watching videos of the same.
        Hope you and Tony start making new videos soon!!!

      2. You could not make your site in several languages, including Russian? Not everyone is fluent in English and the translator is not very comfortable…

        1. I have thought about this before but I don’t speak any other languages. I would have to rely on the translator myself and as you have said it is not perfect at making the translations. The result would be the same.

    1. I am not sure what you mean. Are you talking about the online store or the content in the member’s area? But in either regard the answer is no. In the case of the store I am the only model and the hose are only selectable as far as style and color. I only sell my daily wear pantyhose (which is size small or A and normally L’eggs Sheer Energy), not any particular brand or size. In the member’s area I did not record any information about the pantyhose used in the photo shoots and most occured so long ago that I wouldn’t remember.

  2. 3 questions:
    1. How do I tell whether I have a pantyhose fetish or a Dawn Desire fetish?
    2. In your March 4th tweet, what’s in your right hand?
    3. Is it wrong to care about your answer to #2 or wrong not to care?

    1. Hi Bob. I answered your first question in the post above. I will answer the rest here.

      In my right hand is my electronic cigarette (vape). Tony and I stopped smoking regular tobacco cigarettes about 4 years ago. Smoking became too expensive and vaping is much cheaper. We switched completely over to vaping and didn’t dabble in both because we knew if we didn’t we would continue to smoke tobacco and vape which defeated the purpose. It really worked for us.

      Whether noticing that there is something in my hand and wondering what it could be is right or wrong is a matter of perspective. I tend to examine photos when I look at them. I notice background things as well. It’s just being inquisitive and I think that is a way of trying to get to know more about the person. Just like asking me questions will give you a perspective into who I am as a person as well. I am more than just a pretty face. 🙂

      1. Thanks for the informative eloquence. It gets me so hot when you talk clean to me. My resistance is weakening. I will prolly join but will wait till Thursday because “Thursday night is pizza and pantyhose.” Have you seen that? Did you make it? Google image that phrase for a laugh… awesome. (Might need to scroll down a bit.)

        “…more than just a pretty face”? Well, I think the face is the screen to your projector, so… yeah… oh, hell, yeah.

      1. No, Alyssa Blaze is not modeling anymore as far as know. At least not for us. I haven’t heard from her myself. Tony says she quit modeling for PHAddict back when we all worked together in the same office. All of the pics we have of her are already in her gallery. We don’t have any more of her in the sets we received from PHA.

  3. Hi Dawn,

    I’m happy you came back!
    I would like to leave you some suggestions, for example the italian pantyhose of SOLIDEA (Venere and Naomi).
    Good luck and see you asap!!

    1. Thank you! I will have to check out your pantyhose suggestions. As far as letting my pubic hair grow out, I don’t like that. I prefer to keep it nice and trimmed. I don’t shave it completely anymore because I like it to be obvious that I am not wearing panties under my pantyhose when I let people look up my skirt. When it is shaved completely you can’t be sure unless it is seamless but if there is a little bit of hair peeking out you know. 🙂

    1. If you mean do I do custom photo sets where the person who orders the set provides the outfit, yes. If you mean private as in for use only in the Members Area of, yes. If you mean would I send someone photos if they sent me clothes, no.

  4. Been one of your members off and on for nearly 15 years – just LOVE your sense of fun and your creative ideas. I’ve used them for inspiration with photoshoots with my wife (who is also looks amazing like you do in pantyhose).

    Thank you for being you and thank you for coming back to your site! By the way, I can’t get enough of that interracial set you posted on April 13th. I recognize the video from a number of years ago, but had never seen the photos before. SO HOT! Thank you!

      1. Lee, Ed, Tony, and I have partied together quite a few times over the years. There are sets from other parties that will be posted where I am having some phun with Ed. Alyssa also had a black husband that I partied with at a couple of parties. That’s it though for any interracial shoots. I have never done any interracial shoots beyond what happened at our parties.

        1. Thank you for responding Dawn – may I please make a request for one of those other sets or videos to be posted in the coming weeks? 😉

        2. Came back to say that recent set of you in the white hose (wedding shoot) was just incredible. I love that color on you – I don’t think you wear white all that often. You are a goddess!

          Also, thanks for posting that super-hot Halloween party!!

        3. As you might imagine, I’m SO excited about this series of videos/pics that you’re posting this holiday weekend! You can really tell how much you all enjoy each other and the playfulness. Thank you!!!!

          1. Absolutely fantastic party series in August, Dawn (and Tony) – just love it! You came so tantalizingly close to, well, you know, with Ed! 😉

            THANK YOU!!!

  5. Hi Dawn, you are absoluetly wonderful.

    I try not push nylons too much on my wife, She has amazing legs and feet like you. She also wears them to church and events in the colder months so I’ll take what I can get but she knows about my fetish, i’m sure she’s also seen a couple of pics of you when I forget to close my browser lol! Anyway, I’ve been tearing down the web trying to find a pic of you in a bathtub/hottub/pool where you are pointing your toes but I can’t find it anywhere!! You have the absolute best toe point ever!!

  6. I just read your friends list here but I’m still in shocked Adriana passed away at a young age. How did she passed away?

  7. It looks like Autumn is coming back to the site. Any luck in getting Lee Devine back? I really loved the sets with you two (the bookstore set with the strap-on was a good one) and the sets with you, her, Tony, and Lee’s husband. Those were always fun. It would be great to see everyone again having some great hose fun.

  8. Fist off it’s great to have you back!

    I see that Autumn is back, any chance that Lee will be back? Some of my favorite sets were with you and Lee; strap on at the adult bookstore, you and Lee playing before some fun with Tony and her husband.

    Any chance that we may someday soon see a new set with you and Lee?

    1. Thanks for the welcome back. I am very happy to be back. I am going to roll your to comments into this answer 🙂 Yes, Autumn is back and she is very active again. You can follow her on Twitter @ATHomasXXX and she is selling her worn pantyhose and doing custom photos and videos. Lee and Ed are divorced so Ed won’t be back on the site. Lee on the other hand is a complicated question. She has been dealing with some back issues that required several surgeries and was basically in bed for two years. She is in therapy and working out but isn’t happy with her look right now and isn’t willing to come back just yet. I have been passing on all the encouragement and requests and she REALLY enjoys knowing you love her work and miss her. She was just over the other night and we discussed her coming back again as we do every time we see each other but she still isnt ready. So its not a no but a not in the near future.

      1. That’s sad to hear about Lee. I hope that she’s getting better with her back. Keep on encouraging her, I’m sure that she’s looking as good as ever, I really miss her sets.

  9. Hi Dawn
    I love your site I have been a big fan, I am happy your back. My favorite video is from way back. You stuffed a pair of pantyhose and went shopping around town, are you going to do more videos like that one anytime soon?

  10. Hi Dawn,

    Absolutely love that you are back! Some of your old layering and encasement sets are my all time favs after all those years! Will there be more such sets? What about you and Tony get it on both wearing hose with sheathes like the “Doyeah 0108” pantyhose, as I know you did a lot of stuffing 🙂 ?

    cheers and stay the best!

    1. Thank you! I am glad to be back. I will get some of those older layering sets scheduled for you in November. The October schedule is already full. I will also be shooting some sets like that as well. Oh and thanks for pointing out those pantyhose for men. We ordered some Mantyhose years ago off Ebay and never received them 🙁 We gave up on them after that but we will look into this brand now. 🙂

      1. Amazon has some I have 6 pairs black purple coffee grey pink beige and two black the come as an open sheath or closed I prefer the closed

  11. Hey Dawn. I’m so glad that you’re back! I was wondering, are members able to see your webcam sessions or is there an additional fee for that?

    Also, it sounds like while down is not on the site making new content, the two of you are still hanging out. Are you and her still having some pantyhose fun, just with the camera off this time?

    1. Hey! Glad to be back. 🙂 When I do cam shows that are Member’s Cams, all site members can see the cam show for free. Non-members can view it at the PPM fee. The shows are also available to members in the webcam archive.

      When you said “it sounds like while down is not on the site” I am assuming you meant Dawn and not down. LOL

      But as far as that goes I am back on the site and I am shooting new content every week. I am currently posting one new set from me each week along with two other sets from me and four sets of content from our other girls for a total of seven updates every week.

      Why would you think that I am not shooting content? I know when we originally reopened the site I was wasnt coming back and Tony said as much on the site. But within a month or two we made the decision for me to just jump back in and start shooting again. Tony was supposed to remove all the stuff that said I wasn’t shooting any more. Does it still say somewhere on the site that I am not shooting or updating with new sets? If so please let me know where. 🙂

      Thanks again for the welcome back and I hope you are sharing in my passion for pantyhose!

      Dawn XOXOXO

        1. Oh! Yes, Lee and I still play together when we can. I was just talking to her about getting together over the holidays. 🙂 Hopefully we can get her back on the site too.

      1. That might be true, but I am told by women I have nice looking legs, so I guess that helps me! I am on instagram, @thetightsadvocate

  12. Thanks for the new set of you and Lee – wow! That is a stunner. I can only imagine what it’s like for a girl to kiss another girl – so silky and smooth and curvy. It must be sensory overload. So hot to see the two of you go from dancing to just all out making out! Would love to know what you did to her boyfriend while he was on the couch. You are just amazing Dawn! Thank you!

  13. Hi Dawn,

    I was wondering if you could tell us anything about Gatorgirl / Riley. Is she still doing modeling work? Thanks.


    1. I haven’t heard from them in years. I know that she is not modeling because she had quit the last time I talked to her and that was before they closed the southern legs site.

        1. Hi Dawn,

          You mentioned that Gatorgirl / Riley and her husband ran Did they also run Thanks.


          1. No, Southern Charms has been around much longer than the Gators and is run by a group out of Alabama (which surprises me since Alabama doesn’t even sell dildos LOL). Of course the Gators are from Florida which is why they are the Gators 🙂

          2. Well, that does make sense. That’s a hilarious point about Alabama. There’s lots of hypocrisy out there. My favorite . . . Utah downloads the most porn per capita in the U.S. (Ha!) Thanks again for taking the time to reply. Have a good one.

      1. Hi Dawn.. I’m your biggest fan.. Your legs in hose look absolutely amazing.. my question is how does one go about meeting pantyhose singles and meeting people who are as enthusiastic and passionate about hose as u are (Tony is such a lucky dude.. he hit he lottery with u for real).. I’m looking for a Dawn Desire in my life… all the help and advice u give wud be greatly appreciated.. ty

        1. That’s a tough one. There are women out there but they are hard to find. I will have to write a separate post on this so be on the lookout for that in the near future

          1. Hi Dawn.. thanks for getting back to me.. I really appreciate it.. I guess I’ll have to keep searching.. that being said I didn’t kno Lee was single.. I wud be willing to fly out your way to meet her if she was down.. I’m a black male, med complexion, 40 yrs old.. even it was just for a cup of coffee, if she wasn’t comfortable or shut me down, it would still be worth it.. (it’s just a plane fare.. lol) lmk.. I can send pics, phone number, etc.


      2. Hey Dawn,
        Your really awesome how do everything. One question. How do u deal with panty hose itch? Or don’t u have a problem with it? I love it when my wife wears them, the leggs brand sheer energy, but after wearing a few hours they get terrible itchy. That’s why she doesn’t like to wear them. Have u heard of other women with that problem? What’s your suggestion? Thank you very much!

        1. I don’t have a problem with pantyhose making me itch and I have very sensitive skin. I get hives very easy. I have heard other women talk about it but never experience it myself. I have a couple of ideas of what may cause it.

          Does your wife shave her legs frequently? If so it could be a combination of irritated/dry skin, and the compression of the nylon. Another thing that Tony mentioned was that he gets itchy legs from his socks if they are tight and pulling on his leg hairs too much so maybe the hose are the wrong size for her or she is in between sizes and should try the next size up. A lot of complaints I hear about pantyhose, with the exception of cost versus how easily they are ruined, have to do with improper sizing, poor fit, or the poor quality construction in cheaper brands. Hose that continually pull/slide down are too small and hose that look like loose socks by the end of the day are too big.

          So try keeping her legs well lotioned and making sure that the hose fit correctly (not too tight, not too loose) The size guides on the packages are just a recommendation they are not cut in stone and each brand may require a different size. I have had some hose that are supposed to fit that I can’t get the crotch to come up within four inches of snug (one of my pet peaves is hose that sag in the crotch) and I have had others that I could almost pull over my head. It’s just a trial and error thing sometimes. Quality brands usually have a more accurate fit than the cheaper ones.

          1. Thanks dawn. She wears the sheer energy leggs brand just like you wear, and she used to wear the b sized and would get terribly ichy so I told her go next size up, and that seemed to help better, but she still itches some. She shaves legs too. Any anti itch lotion work? Another cool thing about panty hose I love is the sounds of the swishing thighs:). I think curvy women are just awesome. It’s not about being skinny anymore. Thanks for answering back with your recommendations. Shoot me an email if u want. LaVerne

  14. hello,I like your pictures from you,may be you should post pictures from your old site again,only the big pictures,thank you Dawn

    1. Thanks, I am glad you like what you see. In response to your suggestion I want to say that we are adding pics to the site everyday. Both old and new. We reformat the pics to our new format when we can but sometimes the older pictures do not resize well so we make them as big as we can.

  15. Hey Dawn,
    I just wanted to tell you and Tony thank you for all the wonderful pics and videos over the years. You and Lee have been my date and you have cuckold me more than I’d like to admit haha.Anyhow my wife doesn’t wear pantyhose and I’d love to get her to wear them. Got any suggestions? Thanks for everything-Chris

    1. This is a question I do get all the time. And it will take a dedicated post to answer in a useful way. The short of it is that unless you express to her how much you love pantyhose and unless she is willing to wear them just to make you happy and/or turn you onn then the odds are you won’t convince her to wear them. For instance, I wear pantyhose everyday because I love pantyhose. However, Tony used to bug me for years to wear leggings over my pantyhose and I would tell him no. Back then they weren’t in style and so I didn’t wear them. I know pantyhose aren’t in style but I love pantyhose so that makes all the difference to me. I like leggings but until they came in fashion I didn’t wear them. Now I wear them all the time. I wear them any time I am not wearing a skirt or dress. 🙂 So long story short, there is no one tried and true way to convince your wife to wear pantyhose until she either realizes how great pantyhose make a woman’s legs look, or she decides to wear them to turn you on. 🙂

      1. Hey Dawn! Could you go more in depth on the “recession.” I remember back in maybe 04/05 is when I found yours and Izzys websites. Multiple sites, forums. It was amazing content for a 19-20 year old, lol. From an outsider’s perspective it seemed like great business. What caused the decline exactly?

        1. Hey, this is Tony. Dawn wanted me to answer for her since I know more about what happened than she does.

          The bottom line is people stopped joining pay sites like they used to do. In the early days all you had to do was open a website post content and you could make decent money. Our site grew quickly and there were a lot of small “mom and pop” sites like ours going online. Competition was tough but there was plenty of people with money to spend joining websites. That didn’t last.

          Things peaked for us in 2007 I guess about the time everything started going downhill. When the recession peaked people had to make choices about where to spend their money. So they cut out extras like going to the movies, eating out, joining porn sites, etc. I remember a lot of restaurants and stores closing back then too. Everybody was hurting. At the same time the amount of free adult entertainment grew tremendously. Social media, video and photo sharing sites allowed people to give away and share content that they used to have to pay to see. One person could join a site and then share all the content to everyone so no one else needed a membership. Content theft was always a problem and still is. But in the old days locating what you wanted was tougher. There were forums and groups out there sharing stuff but it wasn’t like it is today. The rise of the huge corporate sharing sites made it easier to find free content.

          So while memberships were declining, our operating costs were the same. Many expenses went up. It costs a lot of money to run a big website on your own. Also, since we were doing this full time, we relied on the website to pay our bills. So at this point we were worried. We were losing money fast and most everyone we knew in the business was getting out. That’s what happened to most of our friends in the business. They just couldn’t afford to operate anymore because memberships dropped off so much so they closed theirs sites and went back to the real world to work. I know one site that had over 3000 members dropped to just over 100 in a matter of a year and a half. Our site did the same thing on a smaller scale. We racked up a huge amount of personal debt trying to keep going thinking it was a short term downturn and we could draw in the members from sites that were closing. Turns out we were wrong. The members didn’t come and it lasted longer than we could survive.

          When it got to the point the debt was crushing us we sold the rights to the site off to try and get out from under it. We were able to cover some of debt and spent the rest of the time finding work and trying paying off the rest. Once things started to improve for us we figured we would give it another shot. The guys we sold to had lost their asses as well and were willing to sell it back to us. So we reopened and changed the way we do business to try and protect ourselves from future problems but still produce a quality site that was affordable to operate in the current business climate.

          So now we have the site running again and it is paying for itself for the most part. We still lose some months but it balances out in others. Dawn now stays home and my day work keeps the lights on while we wait for the site to grow again but we are thinking its may just float along like it is now. Never getting huge but at least paying for itself so we can enjoy sharing our pantyhose fetish. Maybe we will make decent money again but I think the heyday of the mom and pop site has gone the way of the other small businesses in the world. Drowned out by the huge corporate sites who make millions of dollars and can afford to give it all away.

          1. Hi Tony,

            So glad to find out you are back in charge. Hope the site does grow for you.
            Just wanted to let you know that I just subscribed and I wish you and your family all the best.
            Happy Christmas

          2. Hi Jason,

            First I want to say thank you for subscribing. Memberships are what keep all of this running. Without your support it wouldn’t be possible. Tony and I are very happy to be producing the site again. I think it is soooo much better than it was when Hunter and crew were running it. We are working hard to bring it back. This coming year we hope to make more changes to improve the site and hopefully make it grow even more. It’s nowhere near (not even 10% of) what it was before as far as numbers go but it has only been two years since we took it back. We think that pantyhose lovers need a good mom and pop pantyhose site run by real pantyhose lovers not posers and models. Hopefully that will be the niche our site fills. 🙂 Thanks again and I hope you enjoy your time with us.

            Dawn XOXOXO

  16. Hi Dawn… the site and the updates are absolutely incredible… and the pics are stunningly beautiful… been a loyal fan for over 15 years (the first photo set I saw was you in a blue and yellow cheerleader outfit and hose of course; posing in, from what I can remember, a dugout). I think that was like 2002 (I didnt even have wi-fi, was a slow phone wire connection and it would take forever to load, but well worth the wait.. lol). My question is, I wrote you quite sometime ago about a meet and greet and you indicated that you would consider it.. It that something that is still a possibility ? **fingers crossed** and what are you planning to be for halloween this year ??

  17. Hey there Dawn. I have been a HUGE, and I mean huge fan for at least 15 years! I wanted to say thank you for some of the information you posted here. I have always been attracted to women in pantyhose or stockings and always assumed I just had a ph/stocking fetish, but when you explained that if you are attracted to a woman JUST because of the pantyhose, then that is a fetish. I do notice women more when they wear them, but sometimes I’m not only not attracted to them, but I can’t bear their personality, and even if they look good in hose I think “love the legs, but that’s where it ends”. You really helped me to see that it’s not strictly a fetish, but an “enhanced attraction” 😉 Sadly, like most guys, my wife knows I love legs in stockings and hose, but being in her mid 40’s, I think shes over being uncomfortable in them to turn me on. I was a member about 10 years ago, but have ti stay on the DL now. Fortunately, there’s always the internet. Thanks for all the years of your beauty and phun! and Tony’s hard work and damnable luck in life! 🙄

  18. I’m a huge fan of women wearing pantyhose I ask my wife to wear them all the time and she doesn’t mind doing it because she knows it turns me on to see her wearing pantyhose I love seeing women in them and looking at pictures of women wearing them I have no desire to be with other women just my wife I just love seeing other women wearing pantyhose and I think you look absolutely gorgeous in pantyhose I’m a new member and look forward to admiring your picture’s

  19. I have a fetish too, the way they feel is amazing. I love the way feet feel in them. It makes one thick veiny mushroom head lol. I have seen a lot of your pics Dawn and wan wondering if you have any interracial pics featuring you?

    1. Just a few pics and videos from our pantyhose parties. I would play around with Lee’s husband or Alyssa’s husband sometimes. But that’s all. In fact the Halloween Party pics I just posted have some pics of me playing around with Ed (Lee’s husband).

  20. Have you ever thought about doing video of you dipping your heels in public? I think you would have fun catching ppl watching u do it, it’s pretty erotic.

    1. No, I had never thought about a video of it in public. That might be something I could do in the future. Sometimes I see guys checking out my legs and hose, or taking advantage of my giving upskirts, but mostly its just guys checking me out in general. There has been one time that I know for sure someone was watching my feet in particular and that was a comedian at a show when Tony and I was front row center. I wasn’t dangling just bouncing my foot and crossing and recrossing my legs. I could see his head literally follow my feet when I would flash him during leg crosses. He even said something about how much my foot was shaking. That it was “making a breeze”. I was the only person he spoke to from stage. Other than that, I really don’t do it much in real life. I don’t know why I don’t, it just doesn’t happen. I keep my shoes on. It’s probably a germ thing. I wouldn’t say I am a germaphobe, but I do tend to avoid touching things with my bare skin that I think are dirty. I don’t walk around barefoot/stocking footed in public places. I rarely do it at home. I do it at parties when I have been drinking but that’s because I am drunk and dont think about it LOL. Tony makes fun of me because I hand sanitize so much.

  21. Wow! Absolutely love that new candid set from over the years. Just those half dozen pics of you in that interracial tease are so hot! Hope to see more of your explorations! Thank you!

  22. Hi Dawn. Its great to read your honesty about the pantyhose life and what makes pantyhose sexy to you, and us. I am fortunate that I met a wonderful woman/partner through that accepted me for who I am. She came from a one intimate partner in her life (from high school until she divorced) and eventually met me. The last 17 years of her 30 year married life, she said was like living with her brother. After she met me, well, like the song says “Catholic girls start much too late”, she went from no sex to foot fetish/shoe fetish/pantyhose fetish sex and she loves me! Lucky me!

    We married Sept 2018, at 60 years old, and we still enjoy great sex, and great pantyhose/shoes/feet sex. Just this last Friday my wife surprised me in the living room wearing a nightie, sexy open toe wedges and crotchless pantyhose. She knows/understands/indulges/shares my pantyhose fetish and sex even though things have changed since she got off the pill and completed menopause. So its not quite what it used to be, but still good, and loving. Thanks for sharing yourself with us all these years, and know that your sexuality can grow and flourish for many years to come.

    I’ve always appreciated the honesty of your site, your pictures, your pantyhose gal next door sexiness. Do you ever wear crotchless pantyhose in public? That for me is a huge turn on. My wife and I have enjoyed many public trysts with her in crotchless pantyhose. It all adds to the fantasy. Thanks again.
    Andy in Green Bay.

  23. Hi Dawn. Love your site. I’ve been a member previously and will join again in the future. Just had to be a little $$ cautions with this COVID-19 economic impact.

    I hope you, Tony, friends and family are doing well during this time.

    Anyways, my question to you is if there is any potential for a future set with another fine pantyhose lady, either Lee or someone else. I love your videos and photos with you and Lee.

    I remember an old video with you and Lee using a double dildo at a adult store. One of my all time favorites!

    1. The short answer is no even though I would like to do it. Though that is only because we have no one modeling other than me. None of my real life friends, or any of the models on my site are actively modeling. As you probably know, most of the models on my site are real life friends and we trust them. I wouldn’t do something like that with strangers. As far as Lee goes, she is now permanently disabled due to a back injury and won’t be back, though we originally thought she would be. Everyone else has long since retired, moved away, passed on, etc. You have to remember we have been doing this for 20 years. So my friends who were in their 20s and 30s are now 40’s and 50’s. Some people are knocking on 60+. Since Tony and I no longer socialize much outside the family we don’t have the opportunities we had in the past to bring in new people. We don’t party like we used to so we don’t meet people who would be interested in doing this sort of thing. Though in the future that may well change.

  24. I’ve noticed that pantyhoseaddict redirects to your site now. I used to know that site from a long time ago and am wondering if you carry Izzy’s old content in yours now? I know she’s retired but it’d be nice to retrieve some of her stuff.

    1. We have some of the content from the Addict Web/IPI group of sites. We do not have all of the content. We now own the domain names and rights to the content from the sites with the exception of anything with Izzy in it or content produced by IPI featuring Sammi. We do not have any of the photos or videos that feature Izzy, Adrianne, or Sammi nor do we have access to it. We also do not have all of the content they ever posted. Much of their original content was lost over the years and we only received what was still available when we made our licensing agreement.

  25. Dawn,
    1st you are a beautiful and gorgeous women
    Ur smile is blinding
    Like 2 stars colliding
    I have a massive pantyhose fetish , the 80s were king for use pantyhose lovers 🙂
    Found your site way back in 2001?
    I have to say, as you aged…. you became even more stunning and Tony, you might be my hero for treating her like a queen/ princess what ever.
    I hope you guys do this site forever and have a happy and health life together.
    Honestly you can see the happiness in Dawn’s eyes in some photos.
    Anyone can fake smile, but the eyes tell all.

    Many a lonely night in hotel rooms were maybe enjoyable by just searching for dawn desire photos.
    If I had 3 wishes from a genie, 1 would be to be small enough to fit in a stocking and be placed in Dawn’s pantyhose gusset

    Just saying….

  26. Hi, Dawn …

    Love your website … I know you used to sell your worn pantyhose … do you ever plan doing that in the future … would love it!

  27. Hi Dawn – longtime fan and thank you so much for the interracial party sets you’ve posted over the last couple of years – especially the one back in August!

    I don’t know if you take requests, or if this is something you’ve ever considered, but have you ever done any wet and messy (WAM)? I’m not talking super messy, but maybe stepping on a peeled banana while wearing pantyhose? Or, putting applesauce on your pantyhosed toes and licking them (or having Tony lick it off?). Just curious! Keep being you, which means keep being beautiful and sexy!

    1. I only have one other set of Abigail. I have been saving it for someone to ask for more. I will see if we can get it posted in November since October is already finished. If I find out how to contact her again I will see about getting some more.

  28. I was really shocked when i saw a pic you put pantyhose inside you , thats my teenage age , why not try put pantyhose inside and let tony cum in, then put them on…

    1. I have fucked and been fucked by some of the girls. I have only given the guys blow jobs on camera though I have had sex a few times with the guys off camera.

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